I can’t say that we have ever homeschooled during a crisis, or even experienced a crisis, thankfully. When I think of a crisis I think of a death in the family, a natural disaster, loss of a job, or a major illness. However, we have experienced life events that interrupt our regular schooling schedule and routine such as moving and having a baby. During our 6 years of homeschooling, we have moved several times and we have had several babies.
Here are 10 little pieces of wisdom that I have learned during our family times of “crisis” –
1. Pray. Pray together as a family. Pray about the crisis or difficulty and also pray about your schooling. Ask God for guidance in every area of your life. Continue to have faith and know that God is in control.
2. Put school on hold. The life lessons are far more important than the academic lessons. It’s okay to take a break from the books; they will be waiting when life gets back to normal.
3. Ask for help. Don’t be afraid to ask for help and definitely accept the help if offered. You may even be blessing someone by allowing them to be a blessing to you.
4. Just read. Snuggle on the couch and read with your children. If that’s all you have time for or if that’s all you can handle, that’s fine. If you have older children, have them read independently or have them read to the younger children.
5. Stick to the basics. Weed out all the extras that you don’t have time for right now like music, art, foreign language, or any other electives that you deem unnecessary at the moment. Just stick to the 3 R’s, and Bible too.
6. Electronics are your friends. Use the TV, ipad, DVD player, and computer. Allow your children to play some educational games on the computer or ipad, or watch an educational DVD. We really enjoy Liberty’s Kids, Life, The Magic School Bus, and The Animated Hero Classics.
7. Continue on. This may seem backwards, but for some kids and some families, it’s best to just continue on and provide comfort from the “normal” routine and schooling. Only you know what’s best for your family situation.
8. Think outside the “home”school. Depending on your crisis, you may have to take school with you – in the car, in a waiting room, at the grandparent’s house. You can listen to audio books in the car; use the ipad (or other device) for reading, movies, or educational apps; keep a book bin in the car; have your child start a journal.
9. Focus on teaching character qualities. No matter what the crisis or circumstance, this is an opportunity to talk with your children about and to even put into practice many different character qualities such as generosity, faith, compassion, flexibility, and availability.
10. Let go of guilt. Don’t feel guilty that you aren’t providing your children with the academics that you think they need. Remember that this is a season and it will pass. The life lessons your children are learning during this difficult time far outweigh what they would be learning academically.
And here are some excellent posts from around the web about homeschooling during a crisis and/or difficult times:
Homeschooling During Difficult Times
Homeschooling During a Family Health Crisis
Homeschooling in the Difficult Times
Homeschooling During Hard Times
Homeschooling During Difficult Seasons
Homeschooling During Overwhelming Times
Homeschooling During Dark Days
Homeschooling During Financial Struggles
Homeschooling Through Difficult Times Series
Love this, Sarah! Christy
10 good points, thanks for posting them. 🙂
annette @ a net in time
http://anetintimeschooling.weebly.com/a-net-in-time-blog.html
Yo have a great list here! I was hoping you might add my free ebooklet to your list also. It lists ten ways to support families going through a health crisis, and is based on our experiences when our daughter was diagnosed with brain cancer. It can be downloaded for free at http://www.faithfulmomof9.com/my-ebook/
Thank you!
All great ideas! I love your idea about sticking to the basics. Sometimes that’s just the best thing to do when things are overwhelming.
Like most homeschoolers we homeschooled during a crisis. There was one year where my mom and dad were in and out of the hospital eight times between them. I would just grab my kids and our books and we’d make the trek over to my parent’s house so that I could watch my elderly grandmother while the other parent went to the hospital.
At one point my mom and grandma were both in the hospital at the same time. My mom nearly died and my grandma did die. My husband was out of work at the time and I would just toss him the books and run out the door to the hospital. He was out of work for a whole year so we had to get used to daddy being home and not let that distract us.
When my dad died we took a couple of weeks off of homeschooling. I just didn’t feel like doing it. That’s the benefit of homeschooling, it’s so flexible!
Thanks so much for linking up to “Making Your Home Sing Monday” today! 🙂
Greetings Sarah & thanks so much for including my post in your excellent line-up today 🙂 So happy it might be able to encourage, in some small way. Cannot wait to look around your blog this morning! Thank you for what you do!
Marie-Claire